Couples Therapy

Just as every individual has their path, so does every couple.

Instead of trying to fit into a mold of how “it’s supposed to look”, I’ll invite you to discover your unique style and celebrate that. Part of that discovery includes exploring individual and relationship patterns that you’ve brought into your dynamic.

It is useful in relationships to be honest with yourself about who you are, what you want, and what you’re afraid of. Often, these aspects can be hidden from yourself, so then of course from your partner as well. Past conditioning from childhood and society may support behavior such as people pleasing, avoidance, blaming the other etc. When we can see these patterns, we can be free of them.

The body as a pathway toward connection

I’ll encourage an exploration of your nervous system- in the moment tracking of triggers that send you into a survival response. Often people are unaware that they’ve even been hijacked into a threat response and continue to engage with their partner from that place.

Psychedelic Therapy for Couples

Ketamine and psychedelic therapy can be an incredible tool for couples who want deeper intimacy. Psychedelics will likely stir the pot, and bring up what’s unresolved for healing. We’ll go at a pace that works for both of you, but do know that this approach will likely bring a lot to the surface, which can be uncomfortable at times. The result is often deeper empathy and connection for yourself and your beloved.

I work with couples in non-traditional dynamics- polyamory, BDSM, ethical non-monogamy, and sex workers are welcome. I see my role as supporting you in what you choose and helping you discover the magic of your style.